Love making in full light might be appealing to men (and
some women), but for the sake of relaxation (and ultimately
orgasm) the lights must be dim. This can be accomplished with candles, but I personally
prefer a simple bedside lamp with an incandescent light
bulb (too paranoid something might catch on fire!)
The very first thing that draws your partners’ attention to
you is eye contact. Her response to the right kind of eye
contact is automatic: attraction.
The level of attraction can vary from women to women. Eye
contact can simply spark a bit of sexual interest to full
blown sexual desire where she’s physically aroused and
wants to have sex with you.
Generally, making and holding eye contact with someone else
shows that you’re at ease with the other person, and that
As I mention in didn’t just watch
their subjects; they had them wired up to all types of machines that measured
their various physical responses during an episode of sex. They measured
each person’s heart rate; they measured their blood pressure; they
measured how much sweat people gave off. And one of the things they
noticed was that women take a longer time to come down from the high
that they get during sex than men do.
