1. Lighting:

Love making in full light might be appealing to men (and
some women), but for the sake of relaxation (and ultimately
orgasm) the lights must be dim. This can be accomplished with candles, but I personally
prefer a simple bedside lamp with an incandescent light
bulb (too paranoid something might catch on fire!)

2. Music

Sounds and music have a distinct ability to invoke powerful
imagery and emotion. If this is an aspect you’ve overlooked
in the past, you’d be simply amazed at the potential
results.

3. Scents

Lastly, to add spice to your arousing atmosphere, you’re
going to use fragrances.
This is a powerful (almost evil) secret when used properly…
Pleasurable smells can change a person’s mood almost
instantly (especially when combined with the dim lighting
effects and the right music)
But…here’s the secret: What you want to do here is train
your partner to get sexually excited whenever she smells a
fragrance by associating a particular smell with orgasms.
What you want to do is build a “scent memory” of the
experience. So, the next time she smells that fragrance,
it will bring back memories powerful enough to elicit an
emotional response…and send her libido flying through the
roof…instantly!

There are many ways to use scents, but the most popular
ones are:

• Incense
• Candles
• Aroma Jars
• Scented Oils
• Room Spray

You can increase her desire for sex if she has a positive
sexual experience with you earlier. In other words, if she
had an orgasm with you previously, then she’ll want to
participate in sexual activities with you more!

On the other hand, her desire can decrease if she has a
negative sexual experience with you. She’ll want to have
sex with you less if this happens. You may have already
experienced this already (which maybe why you’ve invested
in this book in the first place).