Some women are definitely orgasmic because they can give themselves
orgasms through masturbation anytime they want to, but they can’t
have orgasms with their partners. A variation of this problem is when
a woman is orgasmic with one partner and anorgasmic (unable to have
an orgasm) with another.
Sometimes the cause of this problem is as simple as not having enough foreplay.
Other times, the reason is complex and requires therapy.
Most of the women are not confident enough towards their sexual behavior. Most of the time they keep themselves as passive partner during sexual activities restraining themselves. This might be because of the centuries of ingrained mindset or personal experiences. But the truth is that men like women who are active in bed. Here are some tips that should help you out with it.
1. Allow yourself to let go. Don’t feel selfish or
sluttish; distracted or unworthy. Don’t tame or subdue
yourself. Don’t hold anything back!
Love making in full light might be appealing to men (and
some women), but for the sake of relaxation (and ultimately
orgasm) the lights must be dim. This can be accomplished with candles, but I personally
prefer a simple bedside lamp with an incandescent light
bulb (too paranoid something might catch on fire!)
The very first thing that draws your partners’ attention to
you is eye contact. Her response to the right kind of eye
contact is automatic: attraction.
The level of attraction can vary from women to women. Eye
contact can simply spark a bit of sexual interest to full
blown sexual desire where she’s physically aroused and
wants to have sex with you.
Generally, making and holding eye contact with someone else
shows that you’re at ease with the other person, and that
You have to know where you are to know where
you're going. Unfortunately most men have a very limited
awareness of their own sexual responses and they don't
always know what they are feeling or experiencing at the
moment. They know that something pleasurable is
happening, but they don't know exactly what that
something is. They know that they're aroused, that's for
sure, but they aren't in touch with the subtleties of their
own experience. This is very limiting, both for the man
Before your imagination takes over and you get lost in your favorite sexual fantasy, let's talk
about whether you should tell your partner your fantasies. You and your partner might decide to
talk about your fantasies so you can both learn intimate things about the other. The more you
share about your sexual fantasies, the more your partner gets to understand your thoughts on
sex. But before you do, you need to keep a few things in mind.
How do you approach your lover?
You probably enter into sex with the mindset and goal of “giving her pleasure.”
It’s this approach that leads too many guys on a wild goose
chase for the “perfect” strokes and techniques. It leaves
you blindly seeking out every tip and trick out there,
furiously testing them out on your lover.
Because many people have a hard enough time defining their love, expressing it
may be even more difficult. You might get into a relationship and wonder “Should I say ‘I love you’ before the other person says it?” or “Should I sign an
e-mail or card, ‘Love’?” If you express your love to someone before he or she
expresses it, then you are taking a risk that your love will not be reciprocated.
Since unrequited love is a painful feeling, try to be sure you are really feeling love
The real cure for premature ejaculation is for you to be able to recognize the
premonitory sensation. What is that, you ask? The premonitory sensation is
that feeling that a man gets just before he reaches the point of no return, also
called the moment of inevitability.
Ever since you were a little child, you were given the message that your genitals
were somehow dirty, mostly because they are associated with urination.
So I understand why you may think it an alien concept to put your mouth
anywhere near another person’s penis or vagina. So let me start by saying
that oral sex is no more dangerous than intercourse, and is probably a lot
safer. That’s not to say you can’t catch a disease from oral sex, because you
